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American girls mad over "Tharki" guys SECRETLY Loving Them

What do people expect from boys in 'co-education' environments? Boys are BIOLOGICAL beings, and have FEELINGS too. It is in their nature to notice attractive girls, and complement them.

Too much shaming, and boys will loose their confidence. These girls will eventually proceed to date guys, have sex outside wedlock and vice versa. HYPOCRISY WRITTEN ALL OVER.

Objectifying my foot.

Would any of us want our mothers, wives, sisters, daughters discussed in this way by any man? No way.

We would take a baseball bat to that pervert’s skull. This is what real masculinity is.
Dude, are you HIGH?

Do you know that a man can come to your home and ask for your sister's hand in marriage on his own? Allah Almighty have given this permission to man in the Holy Quran.

Seriously, dude. Muslims should study Holy Quran first before talking about HONOR.

And try to take a baseball bat to someone's skull over a petty issue and see what happens. Never try to hurt people over petty issues. Not worth the trouble, and you will be on receiving end one day.
 
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Culturally, south Asians are arguably somewhat misogynistic

I don’t know about Indian and BD, but Pakistan has a totally different culture.

You should know that in many places in Pakistan, anyone catch teasing any girl will end up a corpse on the side of the road.

The whole clan of that girl will kill anyone to protect the honor of their female clan member.

Dude, are you HIGH?

Do you know that a man can come to your home and ask for your sister's hand in marriage on his own? Allah Almighty have given this permission to man in the Holy Quran.

Seriously, dude. Muslims should study Holy Quran first before talking about HONOR.

Sexually harassing a female and asking for a woman’s Hand are totally different things.

I know my religion, I am in no doubt.

Making lists and numbering females is wrong and against Islamic basic principles.

We should avoid defending these vulgarities in a western culture.

Neither the style of dress of most females of the West is acceptable, neither is the reaction of Western males to sexually harass them.
 
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Well that’s a societal issue. Most people in America aren’t Muslims, so they don’t follow Muslim laws. I am just viewing this in retrospect of American culture.

Of course, Islamic Law & Culture is superior than any laws and cultures. Most of the guys would’nt be lonely, infact they would be married. When they are married, they won’t be making lists and rating girls. Surely, they wouldn’t even have a chance a look at other girls (so no cheating their wives) in lieu of Hijab (both the veil and barrier). It’s a perfect society with no problems.
I don’t know about Indian and BD, but Pakistan has a totally different culture.

You should know that in many places in Pakistan, anyone catch teasing any girl will end up a corpse on the side of the road.

The whole clan of that girl will kill anyone to protect the honor of their female clan member.

Hey man, I grew up in the US and have plenty of Pakistani friends.

I stand by what I said.
 
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I don’t know about Indian and BD, but Pakistan has a totally different culture.

You should know that in many places in Pakistan, anyone catch teasing any girl will end up a corpse on the side of the road.

The whole clan of that girl will kill anyone to protect the honor of their female clan member.
HARASSING a girl is a serious matter, and not acceptable. However, sometimes these people are in GROUPS themselves, and nobody will dare to pick a fight with them. People here are mostly good at victimizing the weak and poor.
 
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Sexually harassing a female and asking for a woman’s Hand are totally different things.

I know my religion, I am in no doubt.

Making lists and numbering females is wrong and against Islamic basic principles.

We should avoid defending these vulgarities in a western culture.

Neither the style of dress of most females of the West is acceptable, neither is the reaction of Western males to sexually harass them.
The list in question was a PRIVATE thing but somebody leaked it - this does not represent harassing.

What is wrong with complementing a woman on her looks? Come on, now.

I am very vocal against vulgarity offline and online, but I see nothing wrong in this matter.
 
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The list in question was a PRIVATE thing but somebody leaked it - this does not represent harassing.

What is wrong with complementing a woman on her looks? Come on, now.

I am very vocal against vulgarity offline and online, but I see nothing wrong in this matter.

Allah swt sees.
 
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Ok, and I stand by what I said. There is no such thing as a South Asian culture.

Pakistanis are not the same, we find Bollywood and Indian dress repulsive.

Really?

I’m not gonna derail this thread any further so I’m gonna keep it here.
 
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if they are so much affected they should demand end of coeducation system and separate colleges for male and female students it is only remedy for these feminists

This is the problem, they are not brave enough to make that move, even though they know it’s correct.

Abuse of females, esp children, is rampant in the US. I can tell you personally as being part of the medical field how many rape and molestation cases I meet.

I understand the propaganda on the other side saying that feminism, LGBT, and SJWs have poisoned the relationship between sexes. Some females claim harassment from celebrities for fame and wealth also. Agreed.

Yet this does not in anyway mitigate the actual endemic sexual violence perpetuated in America, esp by whites on whites. It is a serious issue.

This nation, US, deeply disrespects and even loathes its female (and white) population.
 
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Allah swt sees.
Bro, our judgements are fallible still.

As I pointed out to you earlier that a man can come to your home and request your sister's hand in marriage on his own (allowed in Islam; not necessary for his parents to contact your parents for this matter).

So what would be your reaction in the aforementioned scenario? Will you beat him?

And why would a man come to your home and request your sister's hand in marriage in the first place? Chances are that they met somewhere and want to get married?

Male - Female interactions is normal stuff in any society. However, immorality is not OK.

Women should practice modest dressing in public but burqah is not a requirement. Women should also refrain from having intimate relations with men outside wedlock (i.e. cohabitation and/or hook-ups). Men should show respect to women and not harass them in public, and not pursue intimacy outside wedlock. And of-course, LGBT filth is discouraged. This is all.
 
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Bro, our judgements are fallible still.

As I pointed out to you earlier that a man can come to your home and request your sister's hand in marriage in his own (allowed in Islam; not necessary for his parents to contact your parents for this matter).

So what would be your reaction in the aforementioned scenario? Will you beat him?

And why would a man come to your home and request your sister's hand in marriage in the first place? Chances are that they met somewhere and want to get married?

Male - Female interactions is normal stuff in any society. However, immorality is not OK.

Women should practice modest dressing in public but burqah is not a requirement. Women should also refrain from having intimate relations with men outside wedlock (i.e. cohabitation and/or hook-ups). Men should show respect to women and not harass them in public, and not pursue intimacy outside wedlock. This is all.

You obviously missed the meaning of my post.
 
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This is the problem, they are not brave enough to make that move, even though they know it’s correct.

Abuse of females, esp children, is rampant in the US. I can tell you personally as being part of the medical field how many rape and molestation cases I meet.

I understand the propaganda on the other side saying that feminism, LGBT, and SJWs have poisoned the relationship between sexes. Some females claim harassment from celebrities for fame and wealth also. Agreed.

Yet this does not in anyway mitigate the actual endemic sexual violence perpetuated in America, esp by whites on whites. It is a serious issue.

This nation, US, deeply disrespects and even loathes its female (and white) population.

I suspect abuse of females is not unique to the West.

In my own life, I’ve met 2 desi girls who were raped.

By family or family friends.

I was shocked when I heard this.

It makes me think the identified and disclosed cases are just the tip of the iceberg.

Perhaps it’s just more visible and talked about in the West.
 
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You obviously missed the meaning of my post.
Bro, you are confusing flirting / innocent complements with outright sexual harassment.

Someone's private ranking list of women on the basis of their looks, represent harassment now. This is a bit much. Why not put the boys in a box while at it?
 
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Bro, you are confusing flirting / innocent complements with outright sexual harssment.

Someone's private ranking list of women on the basis of their looks, represent harassment now. This is a bit much.

It’s not harassment.

But it is crude and in poor taste.

Not to mention hella immature.
 
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