6 Things That Make a Man Sexy!

[Lankan Ranger]

6 Things That Make a Man Sexy!

If you do, think again because we're not even close to considering your washboard abs. So no, it’s not the fact that you have a six pack and spend hours at the gym. Although we can't deny it makes you look hot, that’s not what we really look for. It takes a lot more for us to really be in to you. Stop basing your *** appeal on your body and rethink your strategy! Here’s what makes us really swoon.

Look Good

We’re not talking features here. You have to be presentable! Meeting us without taking a shower or shaving is a turn off. We want to see that crisp white shirt and smell that musky aftershave on you. And try not to wear the same clothes twice in a row. We’re women, we might not remember dates but we sure remember what you wore last week!

Have a Sense of Humour

There is nothing sexier than a man with a good sense of humour. We like to tease and we love a man who can take a joke and play along (tease us back if you know what we mean). Being sulky is a huge minus in our books. You need to ease up and be able to laugh at yourself.

Be Confident

Need we say more? A man who is confident can win us over in a jiffy. The key is to draw the line between confidence and over confidence. Acting like you can have every woman in the world or like your the hottest guy around is just being cocky. You don’t want us to throw David Beckham or John Abraham at you, now do you? Also if you’re insecure about your looks or something else then you’d rather keep it to yourself and not whine about it.

Pay Up

It doesn't matter whether it's the 21st century or the 30th century, some things will always stay the same. We are independent but we like to know that a guy can take care of us. Do not make us pay or go dutch for the first three dates at least. We think a guy who takes charge is sexy so even if we tell you we don’t mind, deep inside we actually do mind, a lot. Also a little chivalry goes a long way. Open doors and let us walk through first. Don’t let it close on our nose because we’ll never let you forget that.

Be a Listener and a Talker

This one is really simple. Don’t talk too much and don’t listen so much that we’re left wondering if something is wrong with you. We love men who are good listeners just as much as we love men who we can have a good conversation with. Just please don’t go on and on about your ex-girlfriend or your dog that just died. An intellectual conversation will keep us hooked and interested. Don’t get into a debate though because you've probably already heard: Women are always right!

Be Mysterious

You got to know how to keep us coming back to you. A guy who is mysterious is very very sexy. Make us want to know more and more about you. Being predictable is just boring and we tend to get bored easily. Don’t spill your entire life story at once.

So there you have it. And if you still think it's about the looks, think Heidi Klum and Seal, Padma Lakshmi and Salman Rushdie. They had to be quite the charmers to get these hotties!

6 Things That Make a Man Sexy! | iDiva.com

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[su-47]

6 Things That Make a Man Sexy!

If you do, think again because we're not even close to considering your washboard abs. So no, it’s not the fact that you have a six pack and spend hours at the gym. Although we can't deny it makes you look hot, that’s not what we really look for. It takes a lot more for us to really be in to you. Stop basing your *** appeal on your body and rethink your strategy! Here’s what makes us really swoon.

Look Good

We’re not talking features here. You have to be presentable! Meeting us without taking a shower or shaving is a turn off. We want to see that crisp white shirt and smell that musky aftershave on you. And try not to wear the same clothes twice in a row. We’re women, we might not remember dates but we sure remember what you wore last week!

Have a Sense of Humour

There is nothing sexier than a man with a good sense of humour. We like to tease and we love a man who can take a joke and play along (tease us back if you know what we mean). Being sulky is a huge minus in our books. You need to ease up and be able to laugh at yourself.

Be Confident

Need we say more? A man who is confident can win us over in a jiffy. The key is to draw the line between confidence and over confidence. Acting like you can have every woman in the world or like your the hottest guy around is just being cocky. You don’t want us to throw David Beckham or John Abraham at you, now do you? Also if you’re insecure about your looks or something else then you’d rather keep it to yourself and not whine about it.

Pay Up

It doesn't matter whether it's the 21st century or the 30th century, some things will always stay the same. We are independent but we like to know that a guy can take care of us. Do not make us pay or go dutch for the first three dates at least. We think a guy who takes charge is sexy so even if we tell you we don’t mind, deep inside we actually do mind, a lot. Also a little chivalry goes a long way. Open doors and let us walk through first. Don’t let it close on our nose because we’ll never let you forget that.

Be a Listener and a Talker

This one is really simple. Don’t talk too much and don’t listen so much that we’re left wondering if something is wrong with you. We love men who are good listeners just as much as we love men who we can have a good conversation with. Just please don’t go on and on about your ex-girlfriend or your dog that just died. An intellectual conversation will keep us hooked and interested. Don’t get into a debate though because you've probably already heard: Women are always right!

Be Mysterious

You got to know how to keep us coming back to you. A guy who is mysterious is very very sexy. Make us want to know more and more about you. Being predictable is just boring and we tend to get bored easily. Don’t spill your entire life story at once.

So there you have it. And if you still think it's about the looks, think Heidi Klum and Seal, Padma Lakshmi and Salman Rushdie. They had to be quite the charmers to get these hotties!

6 Things That Make a Man Sexy! | iDiva.com

---------- Post added at 10:20 AM ---------- Previous post was at 10:19 AM ----------

Sri Lankan, I think you are a little too obsessed about literature on seducing women Trust me, its not that complicated.

BTW, this article is good. But just reading online articles wont do anyone any good. You have to have the guts to actually go up and talk to a girl. I have seen too many people who lack the simple talent of approaching a girl

 

[KS]

6 Things That Make a Man Sexy! | iDiva.com

You missed the most important "thing" lol.

No offence to any gals out here.

 

[Spring Onion]

Such claims, statements and advices keeping in view Western standards appearing in desi newspapers and media outlets in no way cater to the local sentiments and standards we set for a man being a real man. Here in sub-continent we women do not in anyway judge a man by this word "sexy' lolzz


For us a real man is the one who stands by you in all circumstances without mincing his words. Thats all which matters rest all other things are secondary

 

[friendly_troll96]

Although this sh!t sounds practical when you’re surfing the web but it won’t work in real world.

Pathano ko dekhnay par Pashto bhool jaati hy.
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You missed the most important "thing" lol.

 

[KS]

For us a real man is the one who stands by you in all circumstances without mincing his words. Thats all which matters rest all other things are secondary

Hmmmm...Since you said sub-continental, does the above point go for Tamil gals also ?

It ll be useful for me.

 

[Spring Onion]

Hmmmm...Since you said sub-continental, does the above point go for Tamil gals also ?

It ll be useful for me.

Yes it is if you could stand by her in all situations then be sure you win the world forever

 

[gowthamraj]

Yes it is if you could stand by her in all situations then be sure you win the world forever

I doing that. . . But she show no response to me

 

[Mirza Jatt]

I doing that. . . But she show no response to me

This should work..it works with 99 % of them.

 

[Spring Onion]

I doing that. . . But she show no response to me

How you doing that ? have you ever stand by her when she needed you in difficult times? give her space do not expect reward in exchange for your support and help


oh BTW dont listen to money mongers. Money is thrown on dancers too and spent on women in *** industry too that does not mean they will start loving everyone as a real man

 

[Frankenstein]

We love men who are good listeners just as much as we love men who we can have a good conversation with.

I hate listen to some women, its like a bug making holes in my ear drum,

 

[Spring Onion]

I hate listen to some women, its like a bug making holes in my ear drum,

lolzzz well we all hate listening to "SOME" women Not all


And the one we hate to listen surely we dont try to be in relation with them right??

 

[Ahmad]

This should work..it works with 99 % of them.

Not my friend, this is totally wrong. if you try to hire a hooker, then yes. but if you want to be with a woman, money is not something they look into it.

 

[Ahmad]

How you doing that ? have you ever stand by her when she needed you in difficult times? give her space do not expect reward in exchange for your support and help


oh BTW dont listen to money mongers. Money is thrown on dancers too and spent on women in *** industry too that does not mean they will start loving everyone as a real man

Well, i think his problem is how to get into a relationship with this lady, the rest of the things such as looking after her or standing by her can be once they are in a relationship(marriage or other), so what is the advice for the first bit?

 

[Mirza Jatt]

Not my friend, this is totally wrong. if you try to hire a hooker, then yes. but if you want to be with a woman, money is not something they look into it.

thats right....but the reason I said 99% is because, there is only 1% girls left with whom money doesnt work and can be called decent. with rest of them..its the best shot.