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The concept of online dating, before the Covid-19 pandemic, was mostly confined to metropolitan cities. However, the course of online dating has changed now. Young Indians from small towns are now relying on dating apps to find love and companionships as more and more people have started to choose video calls over in-person dating, a report by Livemint stated on Wednesday.

According to company executives, users on dating apps, such as Tinder, Bumble, and TrulyMadly, from outside of metro cities now account for 70 per cent, reported Livemint.

Catching up with major metro cities of India, Ahmedabad, Surat, Lucknow, Jaipur, Chandigarh, and Patna are witnessing a significant surge in users of dating apps. With the surge, more women are now becoming vocal on dating platforms, reported Livemint.

Also Read: Dating changed during the Covid pandemic; apps are following suit

About 72 per cent of users believe finding love online without meeting them in person is possible, the executives at dating apps told Livemint.

“The distinction between our online and offline world is blurring. As a result, the time spent online is on the rise," Andwemet's founder Shalini Singh told Livemint.

Andwemet, an online dating platform for single urban Indians, has witnessed its user-base triple annually in the past two years.

Indians find more online dating platforms more trustworthy in the post-Covid era, as people are willing to pay for the convenience of online dating, Singh told Livemint.

The surge in dating app users in these cities has also been fuelled by many youths moving back to their hometowns from the metros during the pandemic, the Andwemet founder told Livemint. She added that dating apps are attracting affluent users even in small-town India.

Video dates

For single people, video dates have become a first-date staple as mentions of 'video call' in bios of Tinder users grew 52 per cent globally, stated Tinder’s Year in Swipe 2021.

While many Indians preferred video dating on Tinder, Hyderabad was the chattiest city, followed closely by Chennai and Bengaluru, the Livemint report stated.

Most first dates are still on video, and if things work out, users plan an offline date, Snehil Khanor, co-founder and CEO of TrulyMadly, told Livemint.

Aisle's founder and CEO, Able Joseph, while agreeing that video calls now become a part of the screening process before an in-person date, said that causal hookups may be on a slow decline.

“Loneliness — coupled with a few years of uncertainty — led to a certain sense of collective fatigue that’s developed in the Indian dating landscape. Singles are found moving away from the endless loop of swiping across dating platforms and are now looking for more substance in a relationship," Joseph further told Livemint.

Bumble India's communications director, Samarpita Samaddar told Livemint that Covid has made 'more than half of us (62 per cent)' realise that it’s okay to be alone for a while.

“People are consciously deciding to be single, with the majority of single people (54 per cent) being more mindful and intentional in how and when they date," she told the newspaper.

After the second wave of Covid in India, emotional connection (60 per cent) and kindness (55 per cent) top the charts as being the most important to single Indians in dating, Samaddar said, quoting a nationwide survey conducted in 2021.

“Social good in terms of volunteering, donating to social causes (48 per cent) especially rank high in preferences for millennials in India," she further told Livemint.

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Men have always been on the prowl. It is the women who are coming around to the idea of online dating in small towns, hence the change. Internet on mobile has been a huge game changer. Add OYO Rooms to the mix and you have a perfect recipe.
 
perfect recipe for what? Don't leave us hanging.

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Men have always been on the prowl. It is the women who are coming around to the idea of online dating in small towns, hence the change. Internet on mobile has been a huge game changer. Add OYO Rooms to the mix and you have a perfect recipe.
Accha hai na, I'd much rather we become more open as a society than regress an ISIS or Talibanesque style conservative one where they hide their bitches under a mountain of ugly cloth.
 
Accha hai na, I'd much rather we become more open as a society than regress an ISIS or Talibanesque style conservative one where they hide their bitches under a mountain of ugly cloth.
I have no problems with this development
 
@villageidiot

perfect recipe for what?

Ding dong!

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lmao

Indian folks here, regardless of which way they might lean politically, must understand Pakistani ..Pakistan proper, that is, not necessarily the hordes of US and UK ones here, although they can be many times more conservative in their societal views than even the ones back home.

These guys are on average much much, many times over more conservative.. dating etc is frowned upon to a much greater degree, don't even talk about 'casual hookups' in their society.

^all this, based on liberal middle/upper middle and above folk and their lifestyle.

India is not that much different either, we just have bigger numbers of people, but we also score significantly lower on rules based religiosity and the associated things that stem from it, much lower.

Again, all very broadly speaking.. there is no way to scientifically quantify that data, this is just my observation, I know better than to speak for everyone.
 
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Dating apps has destroyed relationships in the west and it will do the same there.
 
How can you say Ahmedabad, Surat, Lucknow, Jaipur, Chandigarh, and Patna are small towns ? Most of them are capital cities of their states.

Good luck finding people using these apps in really small towns. You'd be the laughing stock of the town and probably grounded by your parents lol. The only acceptable "dating apps" for the majority are the matrimony apps like shaadi.com etc.
 
Hey everyone! I just stumbled upon this thread, and I find it really interesting how dating apps have become popular in small towns in India. It's amazing how technology can connect people from all over the world, isn't it? I can totally relate to the part about video calls being a first-date staple, especially with the pandemic still ongoing.Speaking of dating apps, have you guys heard of https://www.uadreams.com/? It's a dating site that I recently discovered, and I find it really cool because it offers a wider range of opportunities to meet people from different countries. I'm just sharing my personal experience.
 
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