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Best Age to get Married

No I'm not a practicing Muslim, but I can pretend to be one if the girl's pretty. =)

Come to hyderabad.
Visit local mosque.
Talk to imam.
He will guide you what & where of it.
Of course you have to arrange some "Mithai/Mishti" for him. If you know what I mean.
With money, everything is available here.
 
Come to hyderabad.
Visit local mosque.
Talk to imam.
He will guide you what & where of it.
Of course you have to arrange some "Mithai/Mishti" for him. If you know what I mean.
With money, everything is available here.

Oh, I thought you were talking about real marriages. Well, that ^^ doesn't sound too good.
 
Oh, I thought you were talking about real marriages. Well, that ^^ doesn't sound too good.

Marriage requires money.
Nothing comes without it.
You mean to say you wont pay money to a Qazi?
 
22 for both men and women.
Finish your graduation, get married, struggle for a job, plan for higher studies, finish your post-grad/Ph.D and then have a baby, that's how I think it should be.
My reason is why should one waste the peak (of one's life) merely studying and hunting for jobs? We have a continuously running biological cycle, and it looses its pace as we grow old.
22 is too early age yaar... Most of guys n girls in that don't even understand the meaning of marriage...
Getting married in that age might cause some trouble n one may not be able to focus on career or handle the pressure(family n professional) etc .... Due time needs to be given to both boys n girls to explore the various aspects of life.... Marriage is not the only Last mile in the life that sets every discourse .... I am in my 30s still not married n now I feel should have taken marriage little seriously earlier.....
For the last line yes we should always keep these things too in mind.....
 
22 is too early age yaar... Most of guys n girls in that don't even understand the meaning of marriage...
Getting married in that age might cause some trouble n one may not be able to focus on career or handle the pressure(family n professional) etc .... Due time needs to be given to both boys n girls to explore the various aspects of life.... Marriage is not the only Last mile in the life that sets every discourse .... I am in my 30s still not married n now I feel should have taken marriage little seriously earlier.....
For the last line yes we should always keep these things too in mind.....

Frankly I feel ppl think of marriage as a huge burden, which is not true.
When you marry young then you've many advantages.
First, you've a partner with whom you would be able to share your good and bad days. I think it's in early 20's that we start facing stress and that's when you need a companion most.
Second, starting early helps you grow together. Emotionally and physically there's a better compatibility between the partners.
Third, I 've seen ppl having affairs for 8-9 years and then parting ways, had they been married chances of 'em parting would 've been lesser is what I feel.
Fourth, chances 're you might 've kids early if you marry early (I think one should get married at 22 but not have a child till 25-27). Having kids early is something that you would be thankful about in the later stage of your life. As @MastanKhan says have them (Kids) while you can still enjoy playing with them.
But the biggest disadvantage of being a parent at young age is that you're not matured enough to handle a child. Speaking from my own experience it was all about "hit and trial" for me.
Fifth, the biological cycle!! I think this should be the biggest reason why ppl should get married early.

But like everything else marrying early also has its pros and cons.
This is my take on this topic, and the references 're from my life. :)
 
This!!
Agree with every word you said. A person marrying late will never now what they have missed out on (analogy: a person with no siblings will never know the joys of having one ;)). One can always have a baby later, whenever one decides they are at the appropriate stage in life.
Yeah right!
Ppl think marriage is same as having babies and that's the reason it sounds like a burden to 'em (even kids 're not a burden, those lil angels make your life worth living :) ).

Phir @HRK bhai hamariii bhabi kabbb aa rahiii hain ? :azn:
Ahem!
It's your turn now.
 
Men in my family don't get married before 30; I've got nearly 6 years more ! :)
Oh!!
That's late by my family standards. Lolzz
I mean 30?? Are you planning to get married when you would 've hit middle age?? By then you might have more grey strands than black over your head.....or you might not have any at all. :P

And even still why would I wish to get married at all ? :undecided:
Loner? Are you?
To become a human ATM machine ? :o:
Naïf! :coffee:
You think ppl get married only to share their money with their partners??
Can you ever think beyond money and accounts??? 8-)
 

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