is cyber cheating really cheating?

[Raja.Pakistani]

Question is there are many married peoples who do flirting with opposite gender in chatrooms, facebook , forums and spend most of their time on internet chatting with opposite gender. Are they cheater? what do you think? What is cheating? Is staring at random girls while walking with your wife cheating? Is sleeping with your husband but thinking about your ex bf cheating? or Peoples should consider cheater only if they are married or in a relationship but have physical relationship with someone other than their partner but what about emotional cheating?

Share your mature thoughts

 

[Pride]

I will take one by one :-

Question is there are many married peoples who do flirting with opposite gender in chatrooms, facebook , forums and spend most of their time on internet chatting with opposite gender. Are they cheater? what do you think?

Ans: If it is nice flirting then it is OK but getting emotionally involved with opposite sex being in relation is wrong.

What is cheating?

Ans: Cheating your partner is when you get emotionally and more than that (e.g. Physically) involved

Is staring at random girls while walking with your wife cheating?
Ans: Oggling is natural process justified by scientists but then your partner will not like that so beware.

Is sleeping with your husband but thinking about your ex bf cheating?
Ans: Nopes that is a valid phenomenon as well for fantasizing on name of others but again dont take his/her name else

or Peoples should consider cheater only if they are married or in a relationship but have physical relationship with someone other than their partner but what about emotional cheating?

Ans: Emotional cheating is also cheating to the partner, if it is done without the knowledge of him/her. Consider the case, where you build a platonic relationship with someone and propose her. Physical is crime as no justifications will be accepted.

 

[Raja.Pakistani]

Your replies are mature considering your age but let me reply back one by one

I will
If it is nice flirting then it is OK but getting emotionally involved with opposite sex being in relation is wrong.

what do you mean by nice flirting? Process of getting emotionally involved with someone might start after this nice flirting..flirting might be the first step of this process .

Ans: Cheating your partner is when you get emotionally and more than that (e.g. Physically) involved

Your definition is correct but if we take this definition then many peoples will qualify as cheaters. For examples peoples who love someone but marry someone else(failed love stories) or peoples who cannot forget their first or past love/lover and live with present husband/wife. Peoples who look at katrina with lusty eyes and feel more physical attraction towards her than towards their wife..

Oggling is natural process justified by scientists but then your partner will not like that so beware.

starring random girls is natural process for men or women ? which scientists justified it?

Nopes that is a valid phenomenon as well for fantasizing on name of others but again dont take his/her name else

If there is anything that you need to hide from your partner, or lie about, it is considered a form of deceit

 

[Pride]

Your replies are mature considering your age but let me reply back one by one

Fella, Do you think I am in my teens? lol. I am married guy and have all those encounters.

what do you mean by nice flirting? Process of getting emotionally involved with someone might start after this nice flirting..flirting might be the first step of this process .

Nice or healthy Flirting means when both the parties know that they dont have intentions of moving ahead or taking talks seriously. If one is getting involved emotionally then it is not a healthy flirting.

Your definition is correct but if we take this definition then many peoples will qualify as cheaters. For examples peoples who love someone but marry someone else(failed love stories) or peoples who cannot forget their first or past love/lover and live with present husband/wife. Peoples who look at katrina with lusty eyes and feel more physical attraction towards her than towards their wife..

No, These points will not be considered as Cheating. Take an example of mine, I had 3 past relations and I told everything to my wife regarding that. Now I feel all my love for my wife and doesn't care about my past, though a soft corner will be there. What happpened was history and my wife wasn't there so how is that considered as "Cheating". Having a soft corner for someone is different while emotionally sinking when she is not there is "emotional trauma".

Lusting for others is wrong but when katrina comes with "Sheila ki Jawani" then who cares??

starring random girls is natural process for men or women ? which scientists justified it?

Did you ever heard a phenomenon called "Opposite Sex attraction"? If yes, then you know that has been justified for ages.
I will try to search the article which has identified that. This was something in different hormones we have(like progestorone in women and testostorane in Men).

FYI, I wasn't talking about Staring like "Raping-from-eyes" phenomenon.

If there is anything that you need to hide from your partner, or lie about, it is considered a form of deceit

It will be lying if she asks you and you did not answer it but if it is in mind no one can challange it.