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There is some sad information. Very sad. My father was not happy with marriage to my mother. Father wrote letters to his mother (grandmother to me). My father had written something like this, "You have brought a girl of your choice as your daughter-in-law. You have not brought a girl of my liking. By marrying this girl my life has been ruined. Etcetera." It was probably my father’s complaints and unhappiness which gave the idea of advising second marriage to my paternal uncle. It may not be the other way round.

I hardly need to tell that all this maybe just a tip of the iceberg.

And I thought marriage is made in heaven. Sorry to know that I may be wrong!

Some questions arise. Whose idea was second marriage? Dad’s or that of relatives? How far did dad or relatives go in that direction? Did dad or relatives contemplate divorce?

How did this marriage survive?
 
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There is some sad information. Very sad. My father was not happy with marriage to my mother. Father wrote letters to his mother (grandmother to me). My father had written something like this, "You have brought a girl of your choice as your daughter-in-law. You have not brought a girl of my liking. By marrying this girl my life has been ruined. Etcetera." It was probably my father’s complaints and unhappiness which gave the idea of advising second marriage to my paternal uncle. It may not be the other way round.

I hardly need to tell that all this maybe just a tip of the iceberg.

And I thought marriage is made in heaven. Sorry to know that I may be wrong!

Some questions arise. Whose idea was second marriage? Dad’s or that of relatives? How far did dad or relatives go in that direction? Did dad or relatives contemplate divorce?

How did this marriage survive?
Because both your mom and dad loved you way more than there own personal life and when they see you wasting too much time on social media they must have started thinking differently
 
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There is some sad information. Very sad. My father was not happy with marriage to my mother. Father wrote letters to his mother (grandmother to me). My father had written something like this, "You have brought a girl of your choice as your daughter-in-law. You have not brought a girl of my liking. By marrying this girl my life has been ruined. Etcetera." It was probably my father’s complaints and unhappiness which gave the idea of advising second marriage to my paternal uncle. It may not be the other way round.

I hardly need to tell that all this maybe just a tip of the iceberg.

And I thought marriage is made in heaven. Sorry to know that I may be wrong!

Some questions arise. Whose idea was second marriage? Dad’s or that of relatives? How far did dad or relatives go in that direction? Did dad or relatives contemplate divorce?

How did this marriage survive?

You are a real Ch*tiya !

Your uncle has a individual life, let him decide what is the best for him.

Regarding Dads letter,Every guy has this problem and especially in arranged marriages . then everything get sorts out as they usually do.

So don't f*ck your brain! You do your work and let others do theirs.
 
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don't be so mean you guys, perhaps the issue is taking big toll on OP.
 
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