Man proposes, God disposes. Insaan has one plan for himself and Allah has another. Doesn't mean we don't work hard or do whatever is necessary to achieve the desired outcome but ultimately you have to bow down to the wishes of the almighty.
Asking Bhabi or her family appears to be a dead end. I don't want any grudges or issues bw me and my brothers wife as my Bhabi is now a part of my family. Plus apparently i heard my Bhabi and her mother gave negative feedback on her cousin's family and the girl to my folks.
It is just better...
Does one always need the girl on his side for arranged marriages today?
All my life my parents and elders raised me to believe that all a guy has to do whenever he fancies someone is to just tell his parents and that they will go the girls parents, elders and try to get the ball rolling.
But...