Why women leave men they love

[dev_moh]

the marriages in India( In whole of sub-continent I think) are very different from marriages in Western countries.
In western culture, you marry a peron,
Here in India, you marry a whole family.
its not just about Husband and wife, Its about two extended families.
Love or no love you, you stay.
you have to make it work somehow.
Although, things are changing, but it still holds truth for most.

 

[ghazi52]

the marriages in India( In whole of sub-continent I think) are very different from marriages in Western countries.
In western culture, you marry a peron,
Here in India, you marry a whole family.
its not just about Husband and wife, Its about two extended families.
Love or no love you, you stay.
you have to make it work somehow.
Although, things are changing, but it still holds truth for most.

True...................................................

 

[Zibago]

why? who left u

Welcome back matey

Jo larki hum ko chahiye, us ko hum nahi chahiye. Or jis ko hum chahiye, wo kis ko chahiye??

Nashukra kahein ka

 

[Audio]

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[Desert Fox]

simple logic of life.....if you have money, no one leaves you...



bro... a man needs to earn too...he earns to make his family more comfortable ... and in order to earn he has to stay out of home... women has to understand this simple logic too....

This is the issue in modern capitalist societies where money is the center of everyone's universe and no consideration is given to family life. Is it any wonder that divorce rate is highest in the west along with a massive decline in birthrate.

People say the decline in birthrate is due to a "higher standard of living." No its not. Its because people are so busy and preoccupied that they don't have the time or money to settle down and have children and raise them.

 

[Desert Fox]

Well for successful relationship both need to be accommodating and understanding. Women should be loved and respected but at the same time they need to respect their men too and understand, although, he is a man, but still a human being and gets tired and he also has 24-hrs in day. Jobs and business are taking more time to generate enough money except if you are working public offices in Pakistan. Women cannot expect that the man fulfils all their material needs, newest cars, jewellery, latest phones, expensive shopping trips to Paris and Harrods in London, a mansion in Le Marbela and still be there for their emotional needs.

Exactly. This is the result of the consumerist culture our Pakistani liberals have adopted from the west. People need to have realistic expectations and not put the standards high. This goes for women as well as men.

 

[waleed3601]

Pakistani liberals

khaa ma khan humein badnaam kar rahe ho bhai....im not responsible for any of the things you mentioned above
real liberals are socialists, pseudo liberals are wannabes who dont even know it but propagate capitalism, cant group them all together.

 

[DESERT FIGHTER]

Yup, it seems girl want us to call her every day, she is around 23- 24 years old. Actually I dont want to be seen as needy if I call her every day.

When you actually "love" someone .. You don't really think about trivial matters like above..

Once in 2 days? Is she your girlfriend or just a friend who happens to be a gal?

If you think like ;
"oh man maybe I'm comin off as a fkin despo if I call her everyday ".. than its hardly a "relationship"...

 

[livingdead]

Jo larki hum ko chahiye, us ko hum nahi chahiye. Or jis ko hum chahiye, wo kis ko chahiye??

wah ustad...

 

[kbd-raaf]

With no societal pressure in the West for women to stay married, it is a better idea not to get married at all. FBGM Fucking Betches, Get Money

 

[Hamartia Antidote]

This is the issue in modern capitalist societies where money is the center of everyone's universe and no consideration is given to family life. Is it any wonder that divorce rate is highest in the west along with a massive decline in birthrate..

Well the question is more along the lines of how many kids can you guarantee to have a decent life with the pressures of a stable standard of living.

My wife and I could have 10 kids. I could easily feed, clothe, and shelter them. Putting them all through good colleges....that might be a bit of a problem. Also what happens to them if I was out of work due to some reason?
What purpose would it serve to risk having 10 and have them end up in poverty.

Two or three is plenty. We can live a comfortable life.

You need to account for things...not be a dope like this:

 

[AZADPAKISTAN2009]

Pakistan defence top thread, let your feminine side take over for a change

 

[scholseys]

How many times you guys here call your girlfriend....?

For me, once per two days seems enough....

My other friends ( married one ) suggest calling her every day....that seems too much on me

you taking her for granted or you have other reasons besides love of keeping her around, or she has issues/motives or the other way round.

 

[Indos]

When you actually "love" someone .. You don't really think about trivial matters like above..

Once in 2 days? Is she your girlfriend or just a friend who happens to be a gal?

If you think like ;
"oh man maybe I'm comin off as a fkin despo if I call her everyday ".. than its hardly a "relationship"...

OK, thanks, broe

Well, I am a kind of person who doesnt like to be attached by any woman, in more precise I like to have independent mentality, I see many man just act over acting for their relationship with women. I am not good at keeping them, it has already been my record so maybe the mistake in that, and once per two days is actually much better than my previous record.

Thats why I ask that question here since I am in a new relationship now, and it seems that she is much better than the rest, and I want to be really serious.

 

[DESERT FIGHTER]

OK, thanks, broe

Well, I am a kind of person who doesnt like to be attached by any woman, in more precise I like to have independent mentality, I see many man just act over acting for their relationship with women. I am not good at keeping them, it has already been my record so maybe the mistake in that, and once per two days is actually much better than my previous record.

Thats why I ask that question here since I am in a new relationship now, and it seems that she is much better than the rest, and I want to be really serious.

To be honest I had similar relationships in the past... Had a relationship when I wouldn't call the girl.. N she would always be cribbing about it (and I would again ask her to stop Coz I was with my friends).. But I know for a fact that the so called "relationship" was nothing but .... !

I'm getting married now (couple of months).. I'm 25.. My fiancé is 21.. (Her birthday is on 17 Nov)... And well it's not like the past fake relationships .. We talk whenever .. atleast once a day.. Without feeling "desperate" ..

When you start realising trivial things like that .. Than its definetly not a real relationship or "love"... Coz in a real relationship .. Both "parties" discuss stuff with eachother .. And I mean almost everything.. And doin that they don't feel like things you showed concerns about!