Lol i can understand your pain.Pakistan does not have the power as you thing, to play the card well as US relation with pakistan are mainly to do with Afghanistan.That's why many repeated call by your country to US to involve on kashmir issue cannot be succeeded for so many years. US have many other strategic goal against new rival called China.Obama visited twice in india that too a guest on a republic parade, but none in pakistan, during his two terms.
A country will be influential only if it has
1. Money
2. Military power
3. Diplomatic influence and soft power
4. Future prospect of a country
5. Big market for doing business