Pakistani man gets sexually harassed by girls in Karachi, blogs about the ordeal

[Mentee]

@Mentee @Doordie aur iss mamla ko ghari negah sa dekhna wala @war&peace
@Sarge @Dijnn @SherDil

Yes sir ! Adam teasing do happens . In universities in parks ------- HM wth b krtay hain to ho jaaty hain bdnaam vo japhi b dalay to charcha nae hota

Now feel for that chap

 

[abdulbarijan]

Stating facts, how many crimes reported by men vis-a-vis women, impact factors, men CAN strike back, most women can't.

Well, let's see ... A man striking back a woman in a public place because she harassed him. I don't know how anything can go wrong with that one ... (Hint: Look up the posts by various posters reacting in exactly the way he described proving his very point.)

Secondly, there are various statistics which indicate that men are more prone to specific types of violent crime. So by that argument, should we develop solutions to tackle those problems exclusively for men because they are more prone to be at the receiving end of such crimes? Like I said, if the problem is gender neutral, the solution should be too.

 

[Mevechan]

Well, let's see ... A man striking back a woman in a public place because she harassed him. I don't know how anything can go wrong with that one ... (Hint: Look up the posts by various posters reacting in exactly the way he described proving his very point.)

Secondly, there are various statistics which indicate that men are more prone to specific types of violent crime. So by that argument, should we develop solutions to tackle those problems exclusively for men because they are more prone to be at the receiving end of such crimes? Like I said, if the problem is gender neutral, the solution should be too.

Apples and oranges? I can't post links, perhaps if you were to take a read of Trust Law's report on gender violence globally and see where Pakistan stacks up in terms of women rights and victim protection irt domestic abuse?

 

[danger007]

lol .

 

[SMC]

just lolzz.

i doubt this really happened, but if it did, lucky sob!
chhuri tarbooz pe giray ya tarbooz chhuri pe giray

Really?

Lucky victim

i need a map of tariq rd so i can go for a walk and if i am lucky i be too writing blog very soon.

@Mentee @Doordie aur iss mamla ko ghari negah sa dekhna wala @war&peace
@Sarge @Dijnn @SherDil

oh poor guy ... next time wear two t-shirts ...

lol .

Why are you guys finding this funny? The victim here didn't want to get harassed by girls. Regardless of your own personal wet dreams, not every guy wants to be harassed by random girls. And if someone doesn't want to be harassed, it's our job as a society to appreciate what he wants (nothing unreasonable in not wanting to get harassed) and tackle the problem instead of finding it funny that he's talking about the problem.

 

[abdulbarijan]

Apples and oranges? I can't post links, perhaps if you were to take a read of Trust Law's report on gender violence globally and see where Pakistan stacks up in terms of women rights and victim protection irt domestic abuse?

In my opinion

- Sexual harassment against men vs sexual harassment against women is an apples to apples comparison. (unless you think one's worse than the other)
- Secondly, the comparison of logic is also an apples to apples comparison, where the narrative is - to give attention to the major affectee group of the problem instead of solving the problem which can affect people outside of that group.

 

[Mevechan]

In my opinion

- Sexual harassment against men vs sexual harassment against women is an apples to apples comparison. (unless you think one's worse than the other)
- Secondly, the comparison of logic is also an apples to apples comparison, where the narrative is - to give attention to the major affectee group of the problem instead of solving the problem which can affect people outside of that group.

Fair enough, but it would be very enlightening to see figures on both male vs female victim figures and the aftercare/treatment and outcome of such incidents.

 

[SMC]

dont like the constant equivalence being drawn between challenges and suffering faced by women with that of men.. any person who has lived in subcontinent will know its nowhere near comparable.
its true that men's issues are not spoken much about but specific to grouping, molestation, rape, I would say men's will be very insignificant.. (unless you are including boys, thats a different and serious issue altogether)

There are several issues in what you are saying.

1. Men, when facing harassment, assaults, domestic violence, are usually not taken seriously either, especially in subcontinent. People act like the man 'must have wanted it' and if he doesn't, then he's either weak or gay or some other BS like that.
2. Because of that, far more violence on men goes unreported.
3. If women report something happening to them to a group of white knights, those white knights will beat the living pulp out of the alleged perpetrator. The same cannot be said the other way around.
4. Issues of groping and molestation especially will not be 'very insignificant' especially if a proper study is done about this problem. Because of the fact that no study exists, most of us just fall back to our intuition, which tells us it is almost impossible for men to be victims. But the same logic is used by uneducated people about domestic violence. And then look at domestic violence studies, that show that in nations (including "misogynistic" ones like Iran) where proper studies have been conducted, domestic violence is roughly equally perpetrated by men and women: https://pubpages.unh.edu/~mas2/ID41-PR41-Dominance-symmetry-In-Press-07.pdf

 

[waleed3601]

In my experience girls in group can be even more dangerous than men.

yeah because ttp and isis are all women right? xD
i too call BS on this article. Pakistani girls are very conservative by and large. I live near Tariq Road in Karachi and such an incident can not go by without attention being called. maybe if this happened in dha phase 7 or 8 after a 'private' party where people get drunk it could have been possible. not on tariq road, not in a million years.

 

[Tps43]

Why are you guys finding this funny? The victim here didn't want to get harassed by girls. Regardless of your own personal wet dreams, not every guy wants to be harassed by random girls. And if someone doesn't want to be harassed, it's our job as a society to appreciate what he wants (nothing unreasonable in not wanting to get harassed) and tackle the problem instead of finding it funny that he's talking about the problem.

I absolutly didnt found it funny

 

[abdulbarijan]

Fair enough, but it would be very enlightening to see figures on both male vs female victim figures and the aftercare/treatment and outcome of such incidents.

-In my opinion, that comparative frequency figures are besides the point. Based on FBI data for homicide, for 2010, nearly 77.4% of all homicide victims were men in the U.S of A. But no one has the nerve to argue in favor of a solution which only aims to alleviate the problems of men, even though they are the ones that are overwhelmingly facing it.The reason being again, the crime is gender neutral. If the crime is gender neutral, the solution should be as well. So, if we can be gender neutral when it comes to dealing with problems that overwhelmingly affect men, we can be the same for problems that are gender neutral and affect women more comparatively.

Let's agree on this basic fact: Anybody who harasses another person sexually is scum. Doesn't matter which gender, race, cast or creed.

 

[danger007]

Why are you guys finding this funny? The victim here didn't want to get harassed by girls. Regardless of your own personal wet dreams, not every guy wants to be harassed by random girls. And if someone doesn't want to be harassed, it's our job as a society to appreciate what he wants (nothing unreasonable in not wanting to get harassed) and tackle the problem instead of finding it funny that he's talking about the problem.

if a man cry.. no one give a shit but if it is a women...then...

 

[SMC]

yeah because ttp and isis are all women right? xD
i too call BS on this article. Pakistani girls are very conservative by and large. I live near Tariq Road in Karachi and such an incident can not go by without attention being called. maybe if this happened in dha phase 7 or 8 after a 'private' party where people get drunk it could have been possible. not on tariq road, not in a million years.

Because you know every female that lives in that area or went there on that particular day?

 

[abdulbarijan]

yeah because ttp and isis are all women right? xD
i too call BS on this article. Pakistani girls are very conservative by and large. I live near Tariq Road in Karachi and such an incident can not go by without attention being called. maybe if this happened in dha phase 7 or 8 after a 'private' party where people get drunk it could have been possible. not on tariq road, not in a million years.

Question: As a dude, if this happened to you. How exactly do you plan on "calling attention" to such a situation. Just look at this thread, majority of the posters don't even believe this story. Do outline your plan of action to convince a mob how a group of girls sexually harassed you and ask for help to 'teach them a lesson' like its done when its a guy whose the perpetrator.

The majority of the posters including yourself, just proved the author's point. When it comes to sexual harassment against men, there is no help, infact noone is even ready to believe that men can get harassed.

 

[HannibalBarca]

Don't mind me... I'm here reading female PDF comments...