I am afraid I am helpless. These are bhakts, and they make it a point to insult me at every opportunity, for not denigrating Pakistan and Pakistanis as a default behaviour. I can only apologise for them, and their crudity, and hope that they will mature.
Yes, certain organisations are making the rape events political issues. This applies to both sides. The Congress could have handled it differently; they chose to make a selective exhibition of upright indignation. The BJP was completely lost to shame, and sought to show it as an inherent Hindu-Muslim conflict; it is, one instigated wholly by the Hindus.
Those are references to Kathua. What happened at Unnao was worse. There a rape victim was threatened with further violence; the police were made to pick up her father and beat him to death. There was no cause other than perversion. There was no political issue, at first. It was made political, because the Chief Minister of the state chose to take sides, for the rapist and his gang including his brothers, and was clearly seen to be protecting these animals. That made it transform from a particularly ugly abuse of power and authority into a particularly ugly abuse of political power and politician-derived authority.
I am ignoring your last sentence; your own intentions are clear, but I can in no way agree with the assumptions that you made.