This can be explained simply.
The chap who makes it at the top has been put through the mill for close to 35-40 years staying on the "professional" military side of the house. Unfortunately, when one becomes the CoAS in Pakistan, suddenly this office exposes the same officer to the "political" side of the house. Some adapt well, some cannot. The incumbent seems to be in the latter category even though he, out of most others, was exposed to the political machinations both as DGMI and then DGI. So call it group-think, paralysis or whatever else, he is clearly not reading the political situation in the interests of Pakistan.
Also, in all of this process of progressing through the ranks, nobody knows how to deal with the political mess that Pakistan is. Aside from reading newspapers, attending a NDU course where other politicians may be present, most officers have an outside-in view of politics. I thought Asim Muneer would be better equipped than most others but till now I have not seen his reading of the situation on hand to be any better than an officer less exposed to politics. Obviously, the very best option would be to say farewell to politics for once and for all and just stick to professional soldiering. That would be my enduring hope and prayer for PA but even that won't clean up the current mess.
To your last point, yes, at the señior officer ranks, perhaps their children have better upward mobility so they don't pick army as a career, but the army is still the people's army because the vast majority of the officer corps remains in the field ranks and retires from these. Only about 9-10% makes it from Maj to Lt Col and even less to Brig and beyond. So the vast majority of the people in uniform are connected to the people and there are a lot of wards of retired officers at PMA currently, always were and hopefully this trend will continue.
I don't think I was able to communicate my questions clearly.
The amount of cock sucking and "Sir Jee" instilled in YOs is amazing.
and they carry forward the same tradition.
Anyone who has tried to think a step ahead or do something more has been termed
and made a pariah.
Now, let me give you an example ( real example )
Count the number of brigadiers in RWP.
Now count the staff that waters their lawns, cooks, cleans etc for them.
Now ask yourself where is this staff coming from and where are they getting paid from ?
and you will be surprised ... it is CCB that pays for them through taxes collected from
ordinary citizens.
Second example:
Like any other servant of of the state,
Army officers too get paid for a job they are expected to deliver upon.
However, Army officers get to live in Cantonment which is maintained much better than
the city itself.
Now consider a Major, and see out of his total duty hours, or even month,
what percentage of time was he productive for ?
At most his achievement is to turn up on time ...
So what hard work entitles them an evening at the Garrison mess ? and why ?
As for kids with foreign connections is concerned ... really are you that Naive ?
The young GCs are confronted with "Angrezi" the moment they step past Kakul Gates.
And hence forth their lives are spent explicitly or implicitly trying to wash away
their national character, and somehow trying to pass as an angrez.
I have seen young boys, terrified of using a fork and a knife and I have seen the same
young boys turned officers degrading newcomers because they couldn't pass Angrezi test.
Just imagine, how many of these prestigious elite units, still possess , polish and cherish
the silver left or gifted by the Victorians.
Anyway ... I think I have made my point.
All it takes to destroy these heros of battle, is to correct their Angrei grammar or accent once
and I bet he will never have the balls to look up ever again.