You could definitely be my dad in age, who's to say you that you are not what you say your age is, it's the internet after all! Nah, trust you me not a pen pusher in my 'younger days', how many people get to say that they have served the armed forces of two nations? Not to mention being stuck in the wrong places at the wrong times. You don't know me, I don't know you, however, many people here ACTUALLY do know me. Just understand that I have on ground exposure from Khyber to Kirkuk. So no. Never was relaxing type of person. On the other hand, nowadays, I enjoy nothing more than relaxation, my son, my wife, my dogs and horticulture. And I'm just in my mid to late 30's (you'll never get my real age)!