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You as a Man : Will You Marry a Woman Much Older Than You ?

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  1. Lankan Ranger

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    You as a Man : Will You Marry a Woman Much Older Than You ?

    This Letter written by one of my Cousins, I am Posting it here, It is good to marry a Woman Much Older Than You?

    Friends is it good…………

    Will I ever marry a older woman? Good question...well, for the past couple of months, I have fallen in love with a woman that I've met online...and I've fallen very very deeply in love. I've only found out her real age later on. I am 24 and she is to be 27 in a week.

    But you know what? it doesn't bother me at all. In my view, when you try and find someone, you subcontiously follow your instinct and look well for the looks, what ever your preference may be.

    When you do meet a person online, depending on how things go, you might only find out information such as age and looks after.

    This is a possitive thing actually, since it does meen that you first know the person on a emotional level other then looks. As it may seem, age different such as ours (witch I use only as a example) seems extremely a bad idea, but the idea of love is not limited by age.

    Truth be told, I do find that its probably because of her age, the experience that she has lived threw, and the views that come with her generation that I do find her so amazing. Most girls around my age are too active and roudy for my taste. It might not be very usual for a male of my age, but I do love to just sit together, cuddle, and take things very slow, very calm and loving.

    Clubbing and such are not of interest to me. Witch is why that I'd hope that the public would not see marriges such as this to negative. I'm sure one of the big arguments would be that a marrige like this would meen that me, being hte young man, would miss out on opertunities like being a father, and all sorts of events like that that the public sees as a normal events in a couples life. What the public must do is be more open.

    I myself do recongnize such things, and still, I would rather be with her then have the usual normal couple thing. I see myself such in love with her..it really seems like something clicked on more then just emotion, but in the soul as well as the heart. We have conected so deeply that I wouldn't really want to be with anyone else. As you can imagine, in fear of public not accepting this, for it is not the usual thing, is the reason I have made myself anonymous.

    As complexe as it might seem to the people reading this, or even disgusting as it might seem to some of you, the situation is rather simple to me. I love her, she loves me. I'd do anything for her, and so would she for me. Thats all you need to make a wonderful relationship. Only thing that doesn't make it easy, is the publics view and acceptance, and that, unfortunatly, is something outside our controle.

    Well, those are somewhat my views on the topic. Only other thing I do have to add is that such marriges or relationship are only deemed like a bad thing for the public views them as such...but then why can some celebrities, usualy old male celebrities, marry so much yonger women? I leave that question to you.
     
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    Depends how mature he is. From briefly glancing at his letter .. I would say .. no.
     
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    lol he's talking about her as if she is some old bean. He's 24 and she's 27, and hes going like "her generation" :D
     
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    how mature (s)he is, right?
     
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    He gave me a example

    In 2003, Demi set her sights on the 15-years-younger Ashton Kutcher. Naturally, there were shouts of "It won't last!" But Ms. Moore proved everyone wrong.

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    I am not a man,but as a woman i can say one thing with 100% conviction.It takes a long time for Boys to become Men.Women on the contrary mature very fast.So marrying an older woman is in fact good for boys.It helps them grow up.On the other hand in the said case a 3 year age difference is hardly earth shattering.Older males marry younger females,because it boosts their ego,and makes them feel that they haven't lost their charm.It has also got something to do with creating progeny and feeling good about oneself.
     
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    It's a he...
     
  9. Lankan Ranger

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    I am Puzzled………… :coffee:
     
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    Max..1 or 2 two years older than me..
     
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    Sure, I'll marry her. But depends why she wants me though, it's kind of strange for a women loving a guy younger than her.

    I know I'm not suppose to bring religion in, but Islamicly there is absolutely no problem with it.
     
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    well if he has fallen very very deeply in love with her then wtf is the problem, old,young,black,bald,skinny,yellow,short, wtf.. it doesnt matter any more.

    I think he is not in Love with her, he is stupid and is stuck on age.. ask him to do himself a favor, leave her.
     
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    Its not strange, Islam even dont have a problem with that bro.
     
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    i'll drop my 2 cents. engaged to a taiwanese 4 yrs older than me. No issues to report :)
     
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    There is no cousin, right? :D
     
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