Even if they were not licking the boots of anybody, they still wouldn't help apart from throwing some pocket change as charity and alms. Two benefits in doing that, their image in the Islamic world improves and they buy more acreage in Jannah.Arabs are the ones with the cash, they are to busy licking boots of the west and almost whilst every other Muslims country is crippled in poverty.
As for tackling the real problem, BD must not rely on anybody but do whatever it can in it's ability. Likewise Pakistan should do whatever it can in it's ability to help the Kashmiris. Self dependency FTW. Sooner we learn this the better.