You are burdening yourself with a failed policy and pointless.. You are not a threat militarily to anyone in the region you should know this by now cause it is a forgone conclusion.. Also being competitive with Azerbaijan is pointless for your stargetic goals nor against Turkey or anyone in the region.. Nobody likes you shitty ugly azz outside of the region but if you lose your own base regional allies.. It just weakens you.
You need to see the painting is on the wall... You need to see the bigger picture here. Also don't include Russia into this but if anyone could disrupt Aliyev interests they would have already? he marched out like a lion took what is his without being apologetic to anyone.
Iran is not a threat to Azerbaijain they are heavily armed and much stronger then tiny Israel. Conventionally they are not a walkover for anyone but a meatgrinder. They are solid.
But throwing tantrums here is not the key but the key thing is what is in for Iran? If Azerbaijan doesn't gain it's interests and is Iran insecure or feeling unsafe and afraid of some of the regional players? If yes the answer is why? and if you the answer no? Then there is no reason getting your pants wet over Azerbaijan btw these vile Armenians are not your friends and the same goes to the other othodox. Don't get things wrong or mixed.. You should be grateful that one enemy on your borders have been subdued who wants to see your demise and prays for your eternal demise everyday..
You need to re-evaluate your political standing and it is also from a pointless angle. Your enemy is entirely somewhere else not inside the region you must wake up to this and re-adjust