yeah, I always wondered why India does not engage pakistan's military establishment in talks simultaneously when we talk to the civvies. The US / China ? Saudi's etc all do it.What does it matter? Learn from USA, it deals with the military leadership just as well as with the civilian leadership. India as a regional power should be able to do that too.
If I am not wrong, there's one more aspect ("khilafah group" led by Qadri) to Pakistan's quagmire now.