I know of two PAF Mirage pilots that went down with their aircraft trying to avoid civilian residential areas, sacrificing their lives and saving countless on the ground. But I do agree every instance is unique and this childish back and forth needs to stop.
First was 23rd March, 1987. Mirage suffered a bird strike while en route to Parade ground, pilot pulled out of formation and steered the aircraft away and left it too late to eject.
Second was F/L Rashid son of A/C Shabbir "Angel" Khan. Engine fire on takeoff from PAF Masroor steered the aircraft away from built up area and went down with his aircraft.
Watch this whole documentary, but 5minute mark where they have the actual RT communication.
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