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  1. jaibi

    When was the best time to live in 'your city' ?

    The history of civilization is a history of cities; I think, living in the city is your current time because the city's condition is representing the condition of your era. The most tangible representation of the zietgest (spirit of the era) you occupy in history.
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    A revolution is coming’: Pakistani artist says floods must be catalyst for change

    The reckoning of the upcoming events via climate change won't be just Pakistan but the entire world.
  3. jaibi

    coming out from the closet ...... i am ghey

    It would be an envious position to hold such a simplistic world view. Though it tends to break down when one gets confronted with situations where the spot light turns.
  4. jaibi

    coming out from the closet ...... i am ghey

    I'm sorry to hear about your dad and what the family went through, brother. This would naturally cause trauma and I think a lot of the anger you're showing here stems from that sad string of events. Though, this anger can be just as lethal, traumatic life events have a high correlation with...
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    coming out from the closet ...... i am ghey

    When you give freedom to the repressed it's difficult for them to handle the responsibility of it. I don't think Desi girls are doing any worse that Desi boys. My data are from the therapeutic consultations I've had to give. Though, brother, cursing them wouldn't solve the problem. Yes, there is...
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    coming out from the closet ...... i am ghey

    Dearest brother, You've hit the right mark by stating that the problem is with the society's narrative. Marriage is an ill-disguised ruse for a business deal here, I think the comments in this very section show the sad mentality our sad lot carries. Given that, I think you should take heart in...
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    Experts Now Say Monkeypox Spreading From Or@l And An@l G@y S3x

    I do tend to take long breaks but always here, brother; good to see you kicking here too
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    Experts Now Say Monkeypox Spreading From Or@l And An@l G@y S3x

    Haven't we learnt anything from Covid? Biology doesn't follow any morality nor politics nor ideology. Monkey pox is hitting us because vector based diseases are directly correlated with climate fluctuations. This pox variant has been known for quite sometime and developed nations have stockpiles...
  9. jaibi

    What Are You Listening to Right Now - Round 2

    Thank you, brother. If you dug it then you'd dig this one too. This is spot on Naziaesque
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    What Are You Listening to Right Now - Round 2

    Send these guys some love
  11. jaibi

    Kinda a little off topic, this sh*t been eating me for a long time

    Taking such things as problems or lapses is one way, brother; however you can also see them as pathways of the unexplored. All great wisdom of the world holds knowing oneself as a difficult but ultimately rewarding endeavor. So it may be an enlightening journey
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    Kinda a little off topic, this sh*t been eating me for a long time

    It would also help if you consider therapy. It's not just for severely disturbed people. A good therapist or counselor can help you look inwards in a safe and conducive environment.
  13. jaibi

    Kinda a little off topic, this sh*t been eating me for a long time

    Not for us to say, brother, usually the simplistic reasons don't really apply. That's why therapy is therapy. It's much more nuanced than anything that can be so simply conceptualised.
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    Kinda a little off topic, this sh*t been eating me for a long time

    Then like I said, there's something in you that's perceiving them as a threat which makes you so as a response.
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    Kinda a little off topic, this sh*t been eating me for a long time

    Well, this is something that's been egging on the most recent generation to grow up. The reasons are as many as one wants to make them! In my experience, if you look at the PEW research data all over the world then the millennials (1984-95) and gen-z (95-2010) and the upcoming ones have been...
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    COAS chairs Corps Commanders Conference at GHQ | ISPR | July 2022 .

    This is something that is called for whenever necessary and there's a schedule too. Whenever the central command feels like there is a chance of security related issues springing up, they call up this meeting as the true control of the army rests with the corps commanders, here they usually...
  17. jaibi

    Why can't everyone access Lahore's libraries?

    Because we're becoming brain dead, brother. Public parks, civic life really took a bad hit during the past two decades and there seems to be no will to improve that aspect.
  18. jaibi

    Trads: The extreme Hindu nationalists inspired by alt-right memes

    Sir, would disagree here. This is a part of global world resurgence of right wing extremism just like @That Guy is stating. The fact that the media is a part of it is also integral but in another way: the traditional media coverage adds fuel to the fire and the internet culture spreading it is a...
  19. jaibi

    Why me my Lord!!!!

    Still here, brother :) whenever needed Dearest brother, from your text it seems like you need therapy. I say this because I am a therapist and unlike many unfortunate replies here, it is my field. I don't think talking to you over here would help. If you need help please reply and I'll do my...

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