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How do your kids put up with you? If have any - - -
It's more like, "how do I put up with my kids?" My culture isn't paternalistic - quite the opposite, the parents are accountable to the children.
So it's your kids who give the spanking yes?
Not physically, but otherwise yes. Contrast with many other cultures, where when the kids wave irrefutable evidence that their parents are in the wrong, are simply told to shut up and obey and follow their parents example and treat the grandchildren the same way.
No wonder you guys have the largest inmate population than any other Godforsaken land.
It's not that the kids send the parents to jail or vice-versa but that the kids, if not satisfied by parents' account, are willing to follow a different path.